Friends Taking You For Granted
Posted mar 21 2015.
Friends taking you for granted. To the friend that took me for granted first of all i want you to know that i don t regret my friendship with you. Our memories are some of my favorite but i wish i would have walked away from our friendship a long time ago. When no thanks are given if you help or do something for someone this is an indicator your friend doesn t take your feelings into account. If your partner isn t making the effort to let you know why they re changing plans or keeps doing it for no apparent reason they re taking you for granted by assuming you won t kick up a fuss.
When you indulge in romantic gestures all the time without caring about your lover s reciprocation or when you re too sweet and nice to your lover or a friend all the time without ever letting them realize that you re going way out of your way to do something nice for them it s pretty obvious that they d take you for granted because. There s no reciprocity in the relationship. If you feel taken for granted it may be because you once felt valued by the person who is now taking you for granted. It might also stem from the knowledge that you should feel appreciated but do not.
Signs you re taken for granted sometimes relationships give us comfort but not the nurturing we need.